As this month we celebrate Black History Month and ADHD Awareness Month, I felt that this quote was most apt. In therapy we always question what is normal, who is normal and why are ‘they’ normal? And if everyone else is normal, does that mean that I am abnormal, crazy or even insane?
According to the medical profession, when you have ADHD (and other mental health issues) it is classified as a Disorder, you have an abnormal brain, you need treatment, you need fixing. My, you might even feel like a hopeless and helpless patient! Rest assured, that is not how this works in counselling therapy!
You are a client, who could do with some support, finding out who you are, what makes you tick (or not!) and how to cope with life (better). You are not broken! You might be a bit battered and bruised, and with (self) compassion you get to find out how your brain works, making your emotions work for you, accepting who you truly are, deciding where you want to go and how to get there.
Adult ADHD symptoms may include:
Impulsiveness
Disorganization and problems prioritizing
Poor time management skills
Problems focusing on a task
Trouble multitasking
Excessive activity or restlessness
Poor planning
Low frustration tolerance
Frequent mood swings
Problems following through and completing tasks
Hot temper
Trouble coping with stress
ADHD is diagnosed only when symptoms are severe enough to cause ongoing problems in more than one area of your life. These persistent and disruptive symptoms can be traced back to early childhood. Source
Famous people with ADHD include Simone Biles (gymnast), Dave Grohl (Foo Fighters), Justin Timberlake (recording artist), Adam Levine (Maroon 5), Channing Tatum (actor), Emma Watson (actress), Michael Phelps (23 times Olympic Gold Medallist), will.i.am (recording artist), Scott Kelly (astronaut), and my all-time favourite person Ty Pannington (TV presenter) and a whole bunch more…
These people do not try to be normal – they are truly amazing! Concentrating on what you can do, instead of what you cannot do (hey – haven’t we read that somewhere before?). Regardless (or maybe despite) whatever ‘disorder’, ‘affliction’ or ‘problem’ you have…
Kirsty x
October 2021